One evening I was parked in front of the mall wiping off my car. I had just come from the car wash and was waiting for my wife to finish work. Coming my way from across the parking lot was what society would consider a bum. From the looks of him he had no car, no home, no clean clothes and no money.
There are times when you feel generous, but there are times that you just don't want to be bothered. This was one of the "Don't want to be bothered" times! "Hope he doesn't ask me for money," I thought. He didn't. He came and sat on the curb in front of the bus stop and he didn't look like he could have enough money to even ride the bus.
After a few minutes he spoke. "That's a very nice car," he said. He was ragged, but had an air of dignity around him. I said "Thanks," and continued wiping off my car. He sat there quietly as I worked. The expected plea for money never came. As the silence between us widened, something inside said, "Ask him if he needs any help." I was sure that he would say yes, but I held true to the inner voice.
"Do you need any help?" I asked. He answered in three simple but profound words that I shall never forget. We often look for wisdom in great accomplishments. I expect it from those of higher learning and accomplishments. I expected nothing but an outstretched grimy hand. He spoke three words that shook me, "Don't we all?" he said. I needed help. Maybe not for bus fare or a place to sleep, but I needed help. I reached in my wallet and gave him not only enough for bus fare but enough to get a warm meal and shelter for the day.
Those three little words still ring true. No matter how much you have, no matter how much you have accomplished, you need help too. No matter how little you have, no matter how loaded you are with problems, even without money or a place to sleep, you can give help. Even if it's just a compliment, you can give that!
You never know when you may see someone that appears to have it all. They are waiting on you to give them what they don't have. A different perspective on life, a glimpse of something beautiful, a respite from daily chaos, that only you, through a torn world can see.
Maybe the man was just a homeless stranger wandering the streets. Maybe he was more than that. Maybe he was sent by a power that is great and wise to minister to a soul too comfortable in himself. Maybe God looked down, called an Angel, dressed him like a bum and then said, "Go minister to that man cleaning the car, that man needs help."
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Thursday, August 19, 2010
HUMAN DIGNITY
I am a person; I can think, choose and act deliberately. Meaning am a free person. Freedom is not doing it my way; but the freedom to do the right thing, the right way for the right reasons. The nature of human freedom is one that should be based on a pretext known as the “culture of life” a culture, which is integral to every human development and also serving as a benchmark that promotes the sanity and dignity of every person, both born and the unborn.
Freedom in the real sense is the freedom from all social structures that foster economic injustices, political oppression, and the breaking down of human rights. Our dignity does not come from the “freedom” to do whatever we want. Rather, our dignity does come when we seek to do the right thing at the right time, for the right reason. Human freedom is one that should work so that no one is deprived of his or her basic human dignity.
This ensures the recognition of the right of every man and woman to human and civil culture in harmony with the dignity of the human person, without distinction of race, sex, nation, religion, or moreover, social circumstances.
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